I know that the title Cry Baby isn’t one that most would want to be labeled, as it’s usually used to belittle and demean the person who cries a lot. And yet, call me a Cry Baby all you want. I don’t care, because there are some really good benefits to crying, that more people would experience if hey didn’t think they had to hold back the tears.
To be true to one’s own in a society where so many are pressured to be like everyone else, can be challenging. However, if everyone conforms to the likeness of everyone else, surely the world will become bland and farcical. Although many of us have many things in common, from hair color, to preference of certain foods, to specific passions, to ethnicity, we as well are different in so many ways, including those mentioned above.
I know that there are times when people can really push our buttons to the point where we feel as though we just need to give them a piece of our minds. You know what that meant, right? We feel like we just need to tell them off, set them straight, because for sure they have got us twisted, or at least confused with with someone else.
You know, a lot of people spend a lot of energy focusing on those they consider to haters or enemies, not realizing that their greatest hater and enemy may not be anyone other than themselves. The amount of time spent talking about, worrying about, arguing with, or defending against a hater is time taken away from being who you want to be and doing what you want to do.
Do you have many things that you would like to experience in life that you haven’t so far? If the answer is yes, why haven’t you had these experiences yet? Perhaps it is because you are doing things that are keeping you from your desired experiences.